When interested or curious about the field of the work, one must immediately take self responsibility.

If you are curious about love making, the 9 dances of love will bring you to the core essential principles of life in relation to love making but as well to a deeper self knowledge, of your soul, of your divine self.

There is a journey for you there, at the field of the work. But then, how do you feel about the possibility to experience self love and love, while making love. Would that meditative conscious love making with the divine heart change anything in your life?

To taste means to know…but what if you are not ready to taste? how to know if you are ready and what to be ready means?



One of the most important challenges of humanity is fear, as in its many forms, creates separation between ourselves, our life process, the clarity of our own status or condition and situations or circumstances that triggers a mirror in us.

Life in principle is a mirror that call in us for self-responsibility over our perceptions, pattern of thinking, and doing.

Within the space of interaction between our own male and female inner selfs, and our past, present and future, at that instant, there is one field in which we need to be completely honest.

Unless that honesty is there one will follow any kind of distraction created by our fears or subconscious mind, that will drive us away from the truth.


Knowledge is not information, nor experience nor a point of view nor a concept nor scientific register of matter conditions or process. Knowledge and wisdom as love and self love take place when  a state of the mind and heart and whole being is there. A state of consciousness.

A non dual approach to life will embrace both sensation of comfort and discomfort, as both of them having the same taste. How could that be possible? for that answer one must reach a non dual state.

But what about feelings? if one feels does not want to do something and any way do? or if one prefers something better than other thing? or if one …

There are always for all things in life reasons why our intellect, family patterns, culture or any other idea, concept or preference will tell us to avoid certain experiences or people. If ourselves can not handle even the idea to go there, then one should not go.


When people do act or choose out of kindness (social politeness), or because of friends that went there (inclusion), or  because would like to please others ( putting other as reference for own choices) then in the field of the work, by behaving in this mode, making choices in this approach, one risk to make a great mistake.

The mistake is to avoid to listen something else within. As honesty must be first, and the ability to do what feels right. No matter how the world like our choices or not, or if the world falls out of our choice.

The ability to listen challenge us in the ability to do according to our inner heart without caring of any social, cultural or intellectual convention.

When one acts in this field of honesty, one can reach clarity as for the following experiences to unfold, on what we do actually prefer. This clarity is key as then and only then we can see, sense, experience, who we are and what we do.

Once this point have been reached, the idea of non dual perception, action, being, makes sense, otherwise it would become only a simple concept far in the distance from your possibilities.

3. MIND, HEART OR DIVINE PERCEPTION? conceptual spirituality vs spiritual experience

But the mind is not the final end of the road. The intellect can create many frames, even non dual frames which will give the illusion of reaching non duality as for the play with ideas but not on the core experience of yourself and of life.

One must go beyond the intellect, the mind in order to know. When at the field of experience one sense own self being, and sense with own heart, then one knows immediately what is all about.


The mystical experience of the heart is non conceptual, but can be easily described by using symbolic language, and must, as language is integrated to life and nature of self possibility.

The creational force of the heart, its ability of manifestation thanks to the integration of both male and female, in a state of joy and gratefulness, self love and love for all that is as it is.

Divine perception embraces all that is… now ask yourself, can you?

While a trainer or teacher can be in a state of divine perception, does he/she/it  needs to embrace you? yes, as an expression of love, but how would that embrace look like? for each case is different… as love for you at your stage in your journey must take a form necessary for the next stage… you are different than others, why would you need the same?  but from your side, before you wish for anything coming out of your teacher or trainer you must first know how you feel and if it is the right time for you to  join the work, it means…can you embrace or intent to embrace and love all in yourself? if you have not even arrived to this question, then you must.

If the answer to the question is NO. then you must know at the field of the work you will be requested to, as the path we walk is into divine perception and action, the ability to embrace in self love and love all that you are, is mandatory. If you are ready to build that ability up and along the process know yourself or you do not prefer to do so, at this point in time before you enter the field of the work, you must know.


The preliminary practices and introductory experiences have been designed for you to experience yourself within the field of the work, and know, choose, decide if you are ready and feel right about the journey and your relationship with the instructor, trainer or teacher.

You need to taste in order to know, the field of the work, through preliminary or introductory experiences. But if does not taste good now, then it is not the right time for you. If you feel conflict, then listen to it and take time for yourself in your life to feel that conflict and work it out, if not through preliminary practices, through own life.

It is your responsibility to choose and decide if you feel right in all you do. as well as your right to feel right now and not right later. While consistency is necessary, individual consciousness, and status change, there for life also change, and relationship to the field of the work also change.

At certain point you will realize that so far your shifts between likes and dislikes create your reality and changes in it, or your world limits its self to only what you prefer in polarity to what you do not prefer, then your choice will be still half of the reality you are. How do you pretend to be happy  with only half of yourself?


Non dual approach helps our perception to be clean and objective. The process necessary to reach non dual perception is within each individual available, the condition is honesty regarding what all that is, have been and will be is. The truth on human conditions and nature of life.

The likes or dislikes, preferences, comfortable or not comfortable feelings, belong to our own dual perception of our inner experiences and outer conditions or life process and perceptions.

But perception is still operating in the field of the mind unless is perception of the heart or of our consciousness. When you see with the eyes you know how it feels, but it feels different if you see with your whole being or more different if you see with the mind, but when you see with your heart, you know how the quality of experience changes, now do a step beyond and see with divine heart.


Starting for the ability to embrace our own strength and weakness, perfection and un-perfections, light and darkness as both sourced from the same core, our own inner heart, the heart centre that is the origin and destiny of our life, the pulsing centre that recreated our body and experience of life, our consciousness field.

By knowing individual nature beyond its organic qualities but by knowing its totality, its 100%, not only its matter disassociated from consciousness, feeling, emotions, intellect, mind and time but no time; one can reach by all means the state of seeing both sides of perception, there at that edge, where the light and darkness have been seen together, when the sun does not blind us from the truth nor the moon blind us from the nature of its light, nor the light blind us from its shadows, at that point of consciousness, one might be at that instant capable to see the truth of own self.

This process of knowing own self is necessary and can not be done with a dislike or not preference that blind you or a like or preference that blind you, it must be objective, regarding the nature of both, which is requires from the individual not only self observation,  under several circumstances, but as well of a centre stable in a state of consciousness which is non dual, and beyond non dual, which is heart based and beyond, divine based.

7. HEART is not a caring thing

The Heart based love is not a caring flow that tries no one to suffer and to heal everything and that every one feels good. The heart is beyond feeling good or not good. The heart knows that for living a life the human consciousness need to be upgraded and unless a shift takes place, the spoiled child will always be spoiled and the thin skin will be always thin.

The heart must love and self love, in the raw nature of all that is, of all we are, and embrace it all, but also know that for the path and living @ the field of the work, certain level of self confidence, and self respect,  self worth,  self care, self-awareness, self trust, self enjoyment, self alignment with divine source is necessary.

Eventually empowering experiences will become transformational and one will change, reaching a new level of strength and abilities to love, beyond caring for the one to be loved to feel fine or not with our love and life.

Once a child has learned the fire burns, there is no need for the parents to repeat or forbid. But would you help the child to learn it or let it alone for exploring whole life on fire?

There is a time for everything, and for certain experiences too long time isnt necessary.  Or are you still trying to find out if fire burns?


Self-experience is necessary, but if self motivation and self alignment isnt there, your choices for self experience will be as limited as your motivation and intention.

In the field of the work, a trainer, instructor or teacher will bring you closer to the possibility to experience and if your find self motivation you will do experience, then learn what is necessary to be learned at each step of your journey.


The answer is always the same, be honest. What is that sensation of comfort or lack of comfort? where it comes from? which is that edge? what is there beyond? why would you like to experience or explore yourself for a moment on the edge of beyond, what can you learn from the experience, which is the state of consciousness  you have while asking, do you love yourself and embrace all yourself or just love some parts of yourself. How to reach non dual perception if can only embrace little bits of yourself. If your whole self is not involved in your own journey, how can you claim you travel at all?


You start by experiencing yourself, the field of life where your own life is taking place.