(ENQUIRE) Poliamory or Open Multiple Relationship or Prime Love?
Nowadays feels like people focus more on love than on a format for this quality of love. Which is in general wonderful, that our society and culture evolves to more openness and love sharing. But how is the practice of this love? lets enquire.
Once we love one, we will never stop loving him, her, it, them. To stop loving would be to reppress or suppress underpress and reject love, which will be a self damage, self hurt. Reason of most of the trauma along or after love relationships is that individuals try to stop loving the lover as for the pain they decide to create as for the separation perceived. But when one realizes there is no separation and one see that love can be lived expressed in other forms, then the pain desapears. The practice of love imply enjoyment and gratefulness for the joy and happiness of the ones we love, and supporting conditions necessary for him, her or them to be happy according to their own choices and preferences. The fact we love some one does not imply a relationship in terms of walking together the lines of the palm of their hands. One can love somebody it does not mean need to be together for ever. Love we do not choose, it takes place, appears, happeneds, but relationship, sex practice and making love practices we can choose.
Here a list of some practices of love, and later on, at the end of this article will be described the practice of love focus of the FOREPLAY SOCIETY.
- Unconditional loving care
Some share love with as many in the form of non conditional care, and dedication to their well being, but beside hugging in a loving tender way, that is the gate the stay at.
- Love embrace
Some hug each other with deep heart opening love; the love embrace which involves full deep body contact and whole body , self, openness is practiced by many also world wide. While some love relationships stay at that gate of love, others goes beyond. tango, contact improvisation, dance improvisation, and other forms of dances, including some forms of massages, and the 9 dances of love have the love embrace as a practice, while each of them have a different inner quality to work in. there for are different from each other. The time frame of the love embrace is key, as its longer exclusive nature might define a love relationship with one single partner. While practiced in its temporary form, will imply many love huggers.
- Open relationship
Beside embracing in love every one we might feel like to, to openly develop parallel track of love with as many as human capacity let us do, is another practice of love. This form of open relationship might feel forced, when some of the lovers are not informed on the open and unpredictable nature of the relationship. While some might prefer an spontaneous “i feel love with you today”lets make love or lets start a relationship straight away… others might take their time and let unfold a more grounded love before including one new as a lover. Eventually some will just consider having sex as the mark of an open relationship.
- Empowering Love
To bring love and empowering the love ability of own lovers, giving them the space and freedom to find new love, to evolve in their love relationships is the art of some others. This quality of empowering love, is a form of love, which is not limited by the wish of ‘having a love relationship” but is dedicated to empower in each of the lovers, that could be many in this case, their love ability. It means the source of empowering love will support then have “their own lovers” and develop their relationships. Love trainers would normally apply this form of love for their loving students or followers or circle of lovers.
- The love practitioners
Play and taste in order to learn. It is a kind of agreement form which is non exclusive, in terms of love practices, eventually practices at old tantra schools, where mechanical sexual practices will be developed by students or practitioners who will practice with each other, for purpose of learning, advancing own lover skills, reaching new qualities of mechanical sexual experiences which require a certain quality of love, in terms of caring, honoring and being presence in an honest and responsible manner with the lover, or practice companion. Some of these practice circles will request from its participants the practice of detachment as a sign of ability to practice with many. Eventually some of this circle will develop the idea or perception that their practice is a form of love. Mostly follow the intention of developing the capacity to be free in love other practitioners in any moment. Some, on the other hand would choose one single practice companion for some time.
- The gods and goddesses of love
In ancient times, the gods and goddesses of love would care for the study and practice of conscious love making, as between each other; and regarding the community they will live at, will support individuals, and couples, lovers, to enhance their abilities to love consciously, but as well support them into their relationship issues. Here comes the perception model or idea for some to be applied that the practice of conscious love making or exercises of other kind with a god or goddess of love would help the lovers discover new stages of love, develop their abilities as lovers, and empower their ability for relationship and family. There for the gods and goddesses of love will care in this form for the development of a healthy practice of love at their regions and development of a culture love based. The gods and goddesses of love in ancient times would not dedicate to create family themselves, and will live as singles while sharing practices and deep levels of expression of stages of love between each other within their own temples or houses. In modern times the gods and goddesses of love dedicate themselves to have family, children and demonstrate also how children and family need to be developed. At the foreplay society some of our members might develop abilities to become gods and goddesses of love, at stage 9 of love practice, in any of both modern and ancient practices. It os dedicated to the family.
- Love Play Circle
A close circle of lovers dedicated to explore in collective love making, means more than one women and or man, will practice together. the basic form of this love is that of a 3some. A play circle might have a temporary nature, as for the practice of swing clubs, or a more longer dedication as for play circle communes (shared house), or play circle members would meet at certain scheduled dates for the practice of love. In Rome and Greek times, as well as in many other cultures these practices were developed. The Love Play Circle imply agreement.
An orgia very old practice that suggest a sexual union with more than one lover, along a period of time of one day or more continuous days, but does not imply any form of relationship status or development of such as in (6). Its practice in the form of love, would be different of quality and redefine the meaning of the term “orgia” as for a spontaneous love making practice with more than one person, that joined this type of event. Practices at ancient cultures like rome and greece as well. The conditions to join are the agreement to be open to play or not play love.
The idea of love practiced with more than one love partner, in case of poliamory suggest the lovers will be informed on the nature of the open relationship, and consciously accept the freedom of their poliamory practice, in the sense that the alpha couple or alpha play circle, will welcome new lovers for their members for long term or temporary term, according to the agreement set by the poliamory couple or play circle. It is a transparence practice. While it might vary in its inner forms of being expressed. Some enjoy an open door love which means make love in a shared space where all lovers are welcome to observe and experience the love making practice, or a closed door frame which means a making love with one lover will be practiced in privacy, at the same house or eventually not at the same house. The poliamory practice could be centered in one alphas couple, and bethas lovers or even gamma a love encounters (reflecting on wolves society and pack at its basic form of practice) or could evolve from a play circle point of view in which there are no alphas, nor betha nor gamma, but equality, in terms of centre for the relationship. If poliamory relationship share one house or not is not defining the nature of their love practice. The poliamory practice might include all types of love forms, eventually not sexual ones.
9. Multiple marriage
Where one male marriage many females or one female marriage many males, or many males marriage together many females. The multiple marriage will create a a frame for the relationship in an exclusive format. where no additional lovers would be included. It is a form of family that is defined by its exclusive format. Where all family members love each other. The degrees of love are not questioned, but as in any marriage the commitment and dedication to the family, multiple couples. It imply also having children and caring for them. A soft form of the multiple love is the modern community where all members care for each other and for the children. This modern form of community, suggest every man and woman of the community to be a father and mother of any children of the community, The vision of this kind of family-practice is key. In the modern community-family, the shared love making practices is not an agreement but we couples might start relationships, have children and break within the community without leaving the community, it means keeping the stability of the family, and finding a new love within the community as well. A sense of love stability and exclusivity is defined by multiple marriages and family-communities.
Here now the introduction to Prime Love
Is the practice of self worth, self care, self nurturing, foundation for joy, happiness and freedom; developed based on union within of own inner male and female principles. The individual foundation of union in one self, union with the source of all that is, in own heart and all expressions of own consciousness. (see 9 stages of love)
The practice of self love is key for changing the perception of a love relationship as that one that give us the experience of love, joy and happiness. As well as fundamental for realizing that love making is not limited to the experience of the body but of the heart, should and inner divine source (see 3 stages of the golden sphere of love).
Self love applied at family, culture, nation or global level would imply a change of the self expression of the development practices, it will define strategies for life care, life sustainability, and heritage that matches the feeling and intention of self love. Self love would change our world ( see 9 roses of love, 9 levels of practice according the collective self awareness ).
PEACE & LOVE – All you need is love campaign developed by the FOREPLAY SOCIETY
Is dedicated to suggest the practice of meditative conscious love making, with the heart, as the path for peace, life care, heritage and sustainable living in our modern world, the upgrade of culture into a culture based on peace and love as for the individuals understanding of life principles, laws and nature coming out of the experience of the practice of meditative conscious love making.
The practice of prime love, imply dedication to love and and self love with awareness of the organic light tissue. This particular awareness is developed through the practice of the 9 dances of love. For prime love the term love integrates in itself tow dynamic: love for others and self love, but as well prime yoga, meditative conscious love making, union with the source of all that is have been and will be within our hearts.
The organic light tissue
The purpose and function of the bound of love, the sensitivity of it regarding lovers behaviour, choices, states of consciousness, self transformation, preferences, dedication and commitment to the love relationship will be the key for the development of the relationship. It means the references is what does the lovers cocreate as for the organic light tissue creates a womb, that is nurtured by all they are and do, think, feel, choose, prefer in any moment. (see Golden Family)
The golden womb of prime love is a womb of cocreation, manifestation, the practice of prime love is dedicated to cocreation, as for its divine nature; from conscious children conception to cocreation of arts, projects, community and culture, nation and history. The reference for choices and behaviour, is the stability of the golden prime womb. For example: when the golden prime womb becomes unestable or the nurturing substances flow away of it as for one of the lovers flirt or engage own attention to another individual or lover or event or possibility, the energy assigned to care and nurture the golden prime womb is shifted to another womb created with another lover. Which creates the unestability of the prime golden womb.
Practices of love described at 1,5,9 are aware of the golden womb and dedicate themselves to care for it, by applying own practices and methods. agreements on rules discipline, self-awareness, emotional self management, decision making that will be dedicated to care for the prime golden womb stability there for the unfolding of the cocreative process and manifestation. The cocreative force starts from an inner vision of the heart, at any stage of love it might be applied, and can be called a dream or pulse or field or morphic field, or frequency and pattern or template, blue print that defines the creation, or manifestation.
While in order to reach the choice or preference of prime love, its practitioners might have had several of other experiences (0-9), most of the prime lovers have borned with the sensitivity and live their lifes looking for prime love
Mystic Love to Prime Love
The practice of prime love imply the interest into the experience of mystic love and integration of it as practice for lovers, conscious love making, prime yoga, union with the source of all that is. Following the 5 development stages and 9 stages of love.
Development of the prime golden womb
Its practice will imply that for example, one of the strategies would be to prepare with cocreative dream and vision, the idea of the wished manifestation (as we said, a child, project, or culture or social event) and for one year align own self to its creation, then by the practice of conscious love making and applying the cycle of nature of the sun and the moon, reach he point of conception, then nurturing gestation, birth, life care and sustainable development of the manifestation.
The practice of prime love focus on conscious self awareness and honesty regarding how, when, with whom is cocreated and what is cocreated (see 9 stages of love, 9 jewels of love, 9 roses of love, 9 fields of love, 5 development stages, 3 golden sphere of love stages)
The ability of the lovers to care for the prime golden womb is key to define the form of the love relationship, If the lovers are capable to create a multiple marriage or practice as gods and goddesses of love or expand the love embrace to a love relationship
Choosing a lover
For example if both lovers in a couple have the ability to care responsibly for the prime golden womb at all stages of its development will be then the right match, but what if one of them is capable to develop responsible only one or two stages? How to know? the preliminary time of love before the starting point of process of manifestation should be dedicated to evaluate if the lovers are capable of the practice of the prime golden womb or not at all stages necessary and of the enhancement of this ability.
The choice of a lover is defined by the lover ability to practice responsibly the art of cocreation, manifestation, at all its stages
The art of meditative conscious love making is the main practice, as for the preliminary practices for its enhancement ( see the 9 roses of love, the 9 fields of love, preliminary practices @ the FOREPLAY SOCIETY )
May love and self love nurture the golden culture of human kind.